So Basically here is a brief (haha) thought process I go through each time I come remotely close to posting on a blog...or other things for that matter:
I
have always been hesitant to start a blog or something because I don’t feel
like I have a correct ‘direction’ or ‘vision’. I basically self-sabotage myself
before I get started. It’s like if you are picking out blue paint and there are
40 options…I have too many directions I could go in that I get overwhelmed and
I am paralyzed from acting at all (because I don’t want to do it wrong, I don’t
want to miss it, I don’t want to leave something out, I want to get my point
across, I don’t want to be misunderstood). *Even now, this is an add-in…because I went
back and re-read, had more to say, wanted to say it right or in the best way (I
typically end up confusing) overdetailize (not a word) it and basically judge
it and delete a post/blog/idea before I even get started…anyways, read on… But God
is showing me that all I need to do is getting started. Pick up that pen (or
those fingers to the keys) and begin. Just, START!
A
direction in a blog may naturally occur…and if it complete ramblings about
things from something everyone knows to something no one knows; then that is
okay. Because my heart behind it is that I am acting, I am doing something…and
if I am doing it for God (doesn't matter what it is), then there really is no pressure I need to put on
myself because He works under a state of grace and not perfection (brain, are
you hearing this?!). This needs to become a solid truth in me and a standard I
live by…because I will never be good enough; whether at blogging, teaching,
coffee drinking, or football (shocker). But that is the point, because He is
good enough, He has grace for us, and He is asking for us to only get started
in something. Stop self-doubting, give Him the glory, and strive under the
grace. (As you may know, this certainly does not only apply to my inability to
follow through and just ‘begin’ with a blog and a post…but it is a perfect
example).
I say all this as a continuous
self-talk to me, and to warn those of you who are still reading this lengthy
and quite possibly grammatically incorrect paragraph (I promise I do have an education) And I guess at times, if I am being honest, I am too overwhelmed to take the time to work at it and make it better. But that would be overwhelming if I was working under a state of perfection, but I am not...we are not; in anything. We can always strive to improve things, because we have grace to cover areas and the process. I mean, my posts may not make since, there might be 2
weeks (2 years in this blogs case) between entries…but my goal here is that I am
doing it, I am taking a step and I am not exactly worried about the outcome, I
am focusing on each daily process.
Sometimes
we (I know I do) get so overwhelmed at the outcome, how things look and how
things are portrayed, that we miss the heart of it or what the real purpose should be. (I have a good way of
over-confusing certain areas too…wait, read-on)…And that is what I need
to get back into…the heart of things. My conversations are random, I switch
between something as serious as someone not having enough clothes to keep them
warm, or to the fact that I really want to sleep in a Target because it feels like home (but
really)…that’s how my brain works and sometimes I apologize for it and other
times I do not. Basically…I am a post-it. Sporadic, random, but most times, if
treated with care…stick around.
So let me finish this phrase I always find myself stopping at and repeating, because I have the pattern of quitting before I begin, self-sabotaging, and all those other ugly things that our brains are capable of and …ready,
set, go!! (I am fighting the attempt to scorch that delete button and erase all the past posts and 'tabs'...or to give you blog postings about the past 2 years...haha, hold tight; thank goodness I am not. Blogs are for the current, the living in the present...exactly what God is working in and out for me) :)
*Yes, I may go back and edit this tomorrow...I will pray I do not delete it..even if I wake in the morning and think "Oh my point didn't get across" or "this makes NO since"